Get Help: Stay Safe While Meeting People from Online Dating Apps

Meeting someone from a dating app can be exciting but comes with safety risks, especially for members of the LGBTQ+ community. Follow these guidelines to ensure your personal safety.

Follow these guidelines for a safer experience on and offline.

• Meet in Public: Always choose a well-lit, busy public place like a café, mall, or restaurant for your first few meetings. Avoid secluded or private spaces until you feel comfortable with the person.
• Tell Someone You Trust: Share details about your plans, including the location, time, and name of the person you're meeting. If possible, set a check-in time with a friend.
• Use Your Own Transportation: Arrange your own transportation to and from the meeting. Avoid accepting rides, especially if you're meeting someone for the first time.
• Set Clear Boundaries: Be clear about what you’re comfortable with in terms of physical contact, conversation topics, and personal space. Respect for your boundaries is key.
• Limit Personal Information: Avoid sharing too much personal information early on. This includes your home address, financial details, or intimate photos.
• Trust Your Gut: If something feels off or uncomfortable, don’t hesitate to end the meeting. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for protecting your safety.
• Bring Emergency Resources: Carry essentials like a charged phone, some cash, and emergency contacts easily accessible. Consider using apps that share your location with a trusted person in real-time.

If you feel unsafe, leave the situation immediately and contact local authorities or a trusted friend.